Naya Rivera is missing and presumed dead after her four-year-old son was found alone in a boat
Glee star Naya Rivera, 33, is missing and presumed dead after her four-year-old son was found asleep and alone in a boat on Lake Piru and told cops ‘she jumped in the lake and didn’t come back’ while they were swimming together
- Naya Rivera and her son Josey rented a pontoon boat on California’s Lake Piru on Wednesday afternoon
- Three hours later, another boater raised the alarm after seeing the boat drifting and the child asleep on board
- Cops found Rivera’s life vest on the boat and her car parked nearby, saying the 33-year-old may have drowned
- The four-year-old has said that his mother did not climb back on the boat in ‘challenging’ interview with cops
- Rivera starred as Santana Lopez in 113 episodes of the hit musical series from 2009 to 2015
By Matthew Wright and Tim Stickings For Dailymail.com
Published: 01:24 EDT, 9 July 2020 | Updated: 06:12 EDT, 9 July 2020
Actress Naya Rivera is missing and presumed dead today after her four-year-old son was found alone on a boat in California.
The Glee star and her son Josey rented a pontoon boat on Lake Piru on Wednesday afternoon, but three hours later another boater raised the alarm after seeing the vessel drifting and the child asleep on board.
Cops found Rivera’s life vest on the boat and believe that ‘she did go in the lake’ to go swimming, acknowledging that ‘this may well be a case of drowning’ in a ‘horrible accident’. Her car was found nearby.
Four-year-old Josey has told investigators that he climbed back on the boat and his mother did not, but the circumstances are unclear and cops say it is ‘challenging’ to interrogate a toddler. According to TMZ, the boy says his mother ‘jumped in the water and didn’t come back up’.
The Ventura County Sheriff’s Department confirmed last night that the missing woman was 33-year-old Rivera, who starred in 113 episodes of the hit musical series from 2009 to 2015.
Divers and helicopters were scouring the reservoir until darkness fell but no trace of Rivera has been found and the search has now been halted until morning.
Actress Naya Rivera is presumed dead after her four-year-old son, Josey Hollis, was found alone in a boat on Lake Piru in California on Wednesday afternoon
The Glee star and her son Josey rented a pontoon boat on Lake Piru on Wednesday afternoon, but three hours later another boater raised the alarm
The scene of the search after a boater raised the alarm on Wednesday afternoon, telling authorities he had seen the four-year-old asleep on a drifting pontoon boat
Naya Rivera’s car was found near the scene where she was reported missing on Wednesday when another boater raised the alarm after seeing her son asleep on a drifting pontoon boat
A helicopter carries out a search on Lake Piru on Wednesday, after Naya Rivera was reported missing at around 4pm
Naya Rivera in Glee (left) with Heather Morris and Diana Agron in 2009
This diagram shows where Naya Rivera and her son rented a boat on Lake Piru before the four-year-old was seen alone. The map in the top left shows the location of the lake in relation to Los Angeles where Rivera lives
Child actor and Glee star: The life of Naya Rivera
Naya Rivera, age four, as Hillary Winston on the CBS sitcom The Royal Family
Naya Rivera was born to former model Yolanda Rivera and actor George Rivera on January 12, 1987, in Santa Clarita, California.
She began her acting career at just months old, starring as a baby in adverts for Kmart before landing a significant role as Hillary Winston on the CBS sitcom The Royal Family at the age of four.
Rivera’s personal life came into in the spotlight during her stint on Glee, which began in 2009.
She started dating artist Big Sean in April 2013, becoming engaged in October 2013 but ending the relationship six months later when she suggested she caught him cheating with singer Ariana Grande.
Talking about the split in her book she wrote: ‘We’d been fighting for five straight days while he was traveling, and then on the one day that he was back in LA, he said he didn’t want to see me.
‘Well, a******, I’ve got a key to your house. I walk in, go downstairs, and guess what little girl is sitting cross-legged on the couch listening to music? ‘It rhymes with ‘Smariana Schmande.”
She then began dating actor Ryan Dorsey, who she had previously dated in her early 20s. The pair married on July 19, 2014 in Cabo, San Lucas, Mexico – using the same date set for her marriage to Big Sean.
Seven months later they announced they were having a son, Josey Hollis, who was born in September 2015.
In November 2016 the couple filed for divorce. They briefly reconciled until November 2017, when Rivera was arrested and charged in Kanawha County, West Virginia, with misdemeanor domestic battery against Dorsey.
She allegedly hit him in the head during a row over their child, but charges were later dropped. The couple finally divorced in 2018 and split custody of Josey.
Rivera’s stint on Glee won her nominations for numerous accolades. She had secured the breakthrough role at the age of 22 after years playing guest roles and recurring TV parts in shows including Baywatch and The Fresh Prince of Bel-Air.
During this time, in 2011, she signed to Columbia Records and launched a solo singing career, releasing a single with rapper Big Sean in 2013 – who she was then dating – titled Sorry.
Rivera made her movie debut as Vera in the horror film At the Devil’s Door in 2014, then returned to TV to play the reoccurring role of Blanca on Devious Maids in 2015.
A year later she published her memoir, at the age of 29, titled Sorry Not Sorry: Dreams, Mistakes, and Growing Up.
Rivera’s brother Mychal Rivera is a former NFL player for the Oakland Raiders and Jacksonville Jaguars. Her sister Nickayla Rivera is a model.
Demi Lovato was among the celebrities to hold out hope last night, asking her 87million Instagram followers to ‘pray for Naya Rivera to be found safe and sound’.
Rivera’s former Glee co-star Heather Morris said: ‘We need all the prayers we can get to bring our Naya back to us… we need your love and light.’
Glee cast member Harry Shum Jr, who played Mike Chang, simply wrote ‘Praying’, while Iqbal Theba (Principal Figgins) and Max Adler (David Karofsky) have also posted concerned messages on social media.
Rivera’s ex-fiancee Big Sean signalled his concern this morning by liking a series of tweets praying for her safety and demanding that the search for her should continue.
Zack Teperman, a publicist who said Rivera was ‘one of the first people I had the honor of working with’, said he was ‘in complete disbelief and shock right now’.
‘Was just messaging Naya a few weeks back. This can’t be true. Prayers for her little boy,’ he said last night.
Officials told NBC Los Angeles that Rivera’s disappearance was ‘considered to be a horrible accident’, saying there was no suspicion of foul play.
Authorities believe Rivera to be ‘presumed drowned’, according to Captain Eric Buschow, a spokesman for the Ventura County Sheriff’s Office.
Reports say that some of Rivera’s possessions including a purse, wallet and food were found on the boat. Another purse is said to have been left in Rivera’s car, a Mercedes G-Wagon which was still in the parking lot.
A search and rescue dive team and a helicopter with a drone were both dispatched to the lake, around 60 miles north-west of downtown Los Angeles.
The search was suspended overnight but is due to continue ‘at first light’, authorities said last night.
Sheriff’s office spokesman Buschow told reporters after darkness fell that Rivera and her son were seen going out on the lake at around 1pm.
‘Approximately three hours after they left the dock another boater out on the lake discovered the boat drifting with the [son] on board asleep,’ they said.
‘So they contacted the rangers and began an investigation and we’ve been actively searching for the mother since that time. We have both aerial search going on and our dive team as well.
‘Indications are that we believe she did go in the lake. At this point it’s still a search and that’s what we know up to this point.
‘The [son] said that he had been swimming with his mother and that she got back in the boat and her mum didn’t. ‘We know that the [boy] had a life vest on, there was another adult life vest found on the boat. It’s somewhat challenging interviewing a three-year-old.
‘We’re going on the belief that she did go in the water, and we’ve not been able to locate her. This may well be a case of drowning.’
Buschow said it was not known how deep the water was at the spot where Rivera went into the water or what kind of conditions they might have been facing.
Staff at the lake had also raised the alarm after Rivera failed to return the boat, it is believed.
‘This is a big reservoir, it’s deep, these kinds of things happen. We don’t know all the circumstances. Investigators are working on that, getting as much information as possible,’ he said.
The sheriff’s office initially referred mistakenly to a three-year-old girl, but later clarified that the child is a four-year-old son.
Investigators have made contact with Rivera’s family and said they were working to ‘reunite’ the toddler with relatives. It is not clear whether Rivera had driven from her LA home or was staying closer to the lake.
Naya Rivera is pictured left with her ex-partner Ryan Dorsey, the father of four-year-old Josey who was on the boat with Rivera when she went missing. She is seen right in a photo she recently posted on Twitter
Hoping: Demi Lovato shared a picture of a candle and wrote ‘please pray for @nayarivera’ on Instagram on Thursday
‘Pray’: Demi Lovato (right in the left-hand image) has led the stars posting messages for Naya Rivera (left). Iqbal Theba, who played Principal Figgins, also shared a concerned post
Helicopters were deployed to Lake Piru in Ventura County to search until darkness fell. The operation was subsequently paused until first light on Thursday
Authorities believe Rivera to be ‘presumed drowned’ and a search has been launched to locate her body
Police vehicles near the pontoon dock in Lake Piru where a search and rescue operation was underway last night
Police on a walkway at the scene where Naya Rivera and her son rented a boat around 1pm on Wednesday afternoon
Rivera had just taken to her social media on July 7, sharing a touching photo of her with her son, Josey Hollis. ‘Just the two of us,’ she said in the post. They are also pictured together right
Rivera is believed to be ‘presumed drowned’ and a search has been launched to locate her body. She is pictured left in May last year, and right when she was arrested on domestic battery charges in 2017. Charges against her were later dropped
Naya Rivera previously dated Big Sean (pictured together left in 2013), before they eventually broke off their engagement. She also dated Glee’s Mark Salling (right) who killed himself in 2018 after pleading guilty to child pornography charges
‘Please pray for Naya’: Demi Lovato and Glee star Heather Morris post messages of hope
Naya Rivera’s friends and co-stars have taken to social media to post messages of hope after the actress went missing on Lake Piru in California.
Demi Lovato, 27, and Glee star Heather Morris, 33, both took to Instagram On Thursday to urge fans to pray for her.
Demi, who played struggling artist Dani in Glee, appeared alongside Naya, 33,[Santana Lopez], for six episodes in season five as her love interest.
She shared a picture of a candle and wrote: ‘Please pray for @nayarivera to be found safe and sound.
Heather, who plays Brittany S. Pierce, wrote on her Stories: ‘We need all the prayers we can to bring our Naya back home to us. We need your love and light.’
Glee cast member Harry Shum Jr., [Mike Chang], simply wrote ‘Praying’, and Iqbal Theba, [Principal Figgins] and Max Adler, [David Karofsky], have also posted messages on social media.
Rivera’s ex-fiancee Big Sean signalled his concern this morning by liking a series of tweets praying for her safety and demanding that the search for her should continue.
Rivera had last posted on social media on July 7, sharing a touching photo of her with her so Josey. ‘Just the two of us,’ she wrote as a caption.
The actress starred in Glee from 2009 to 2015, playing high school cheerleader Santana Lopez for all six seasons of the popular series.
Naya welcomed son, Josey Hollis, with then-husband Ryan Dorsey in 2015. She called her young son ‘my greatest success, and I will never do any better than him’ in her 2016 memoir ‘Sorry Not Sorry.’
Rivera and Hollis divorced in 2018, after Rivera had earlier applied to end the marriage in 2016 but the couple had initially reconciled.
On Thanksgiving weekend 2017, Rivera was arrested in West Virginia on suspicion of domestic battery against Dorsey. The Kanawha County Sheriff’s Office said Dorsey later asked that Rivera not be prosecuted.
Dorsey, also an actor, has appeared on shows including Ray Donavan and Justified.
Former Glee co-star Matthew Morrison defended Rivera at the time of her arrest, saying she was a ‘great mom’.
Before that, Rivera was engaged to rapper Big Sean but they broke off their marriage plans in 2014. Big Sean featured on Rivera’s debut single ‘Sorry’, which was released in September 2013.
Rivera also dated co-star Mark Salling, who killed himself in 2018 after pleading guilty to child pornography charges.
In her memoir, the actress admitted that she was not surprised by his criminal record.
She wrote: ‘I can’t say I was totally shocked. When Mark dumped me, I thought it was the worst thing ever, but can you imagine if that didn’t happen?… and I was laying there in bed when the battering ram came through the door?’.
The Glee cast had already been hit by tragedy in 2013, when Cory Monteith was found dead in a Canadian hotel room. A coroner’s report blamed the 31-year-old’s death on a fatal dose of heroin and alcohol.
Rivera later described Monteith’s death as one of her toughest personal moments, saying in a 2016 interview that ‘the Cory chapter really choked me up’ when she was writing her memoir.
Born in 1987, Rivera began her acting career at just months old, starring as a baby in adverts for Kmart before landing a significant role as Hillary Winston on the CBS sitcom The Royal Family at the age of four.
After years spent playing guest roles and reoccurring TV parts Rivera secured her breakthrough role in Glee at the age of 22. The role earned her award nominations for numerous accolades.
During this time, in 2011, she signed to Columbia Records and launched a solo singing career, releasing a single with rapper Big Sean in 2013 – who she was then dating – titled Sorry.
Rivera made her first film debut as Vera in the horror film At the Devil’s Door in 2014, then returned to TV to play the reoccurring role of Blanca on Devious Maids in 2015.
Lake Piru is a reservoir located in the Los Padres National Forest and Topatopa Mountains, created in 1955.
Lake Piru is a reservoir located in the Los Padres National Forest and Topatopa Mountains
Naya Rivera (left) with co-star Lea Michele in an episode of Glee which aired in March 2014
A search and rescue dive team and a helicopter with a drone have both been dispatched to the scene to assist in the search
Police vehicles at the scene of the search, which continued until darkness fell on Wednesday
A body had not been located as of last night and the search was suspended until first light on Thursday
The Glee Curse: How TV’s cheeriest show has been plagued by tragedy and scandal… including drug overdoses, paedophilia, suicide, domestic abuse and on-set bullying
By Ciara Farmer for MailOnline
While Glee was easily one of the cheeriest shows to ever grace television screens, behind-the-scenes a murky curse has long-prevailed among its troubled cast and crew.
On Thursday, it was revealed that one of the show’s lead stars, Naya Rivera, who played Santana Lopez, was presumed dead after her son, four, was found alone in a pontoon boat on Lake Piru in California.
The heartbreaking news comes among a string of heartbreaks and horrors surrounding the programme, including Cory Monteith’s accidental drug overdose in 2013, Naya’s ex-boyfriend Mark Salling’s conviction for possession of child pornography and subsequent suicide and recent rumours of unrest on-set.
The programme ran for six seasons from 2009 to 2015 and throughout its time on air and the years following, trauma has reigned supreme – leading to claims of a ‘Glee Curse’.
Not so Glee-ful: While Glee was easily one of the cheeriest shows to ever grace television screens, behind-the-scenes a murky curse has long-prevailed among its troubled cast and crew (Pictured top row L-R: Chord Overstreet, Harry Shum Jr., Naya Rivera, Dianna Agron, Iqbal Theba, Heather Morris, Chris Colfer and Jane Lynch. Bottom row L-R: Kevin McHale, Mark Salling (floor), Amber Riley, Jenna Ushkowitz, Cory Monteith, Lea Michele and Matthew Morrison in 2011)
NAYA RIVERA’S SUSPECTED DROWNING AND ARREST
On Thursday 8 July it was revealed that Naya Rivera was missing and presumed dead today after her four-year-old son was found alone on a boat. The star and her son Josey rented a pontoon boat on Lake Piru on Wednesday, but three hours later another boater raised the alarm after seeing the vessel drifting and the child asleep on board.
Naya Rivera played Santana Lopez
Cops found Rivera’s life vest on the boat and believe that ‘she did go in the lake’ to go swimming, acknowledging that ‘this may well be a case of drowning’. Her car was reportedly found nearby.
Four-year-old Josey has told investigators that he got back on the boat and his mother did not, but the circumstances are unclear and cops say it is ‘challenging’ to interrogate a toddler.
The Ventura County Sheriff’s Department confirmed last night that the missing woman was 33-year-old Rivera, who starred in 113 episodes of the hit musical series from 2009 to 2015.
Divers and helicopters were scouring the reservoir until darkness fell but no trace of Rivera has been found and the search has been halted until first light.
Naya welcomed son, Josey Hollis, with then-husband Ryan Dorsey in 2015. She called her young son ‘my greatest success, and I will never do any better than him’ in her 2016 memoir ‘Sorry Not Sorry.’
Rivera and Hollis divorced in 2018, after Rivera had applied to end the marriage in 2016 but they had initially reconciled. On Thanksgiving weekend 2017, Rivera was arrested in West Virginia on suspicion of domestic battery against Dorsey. The Kanawha County Sheriff’s Office said Dorsey later asked that Rivera not be prosecuted.
Heartache: On Thursday, it was revealed that one of the show’s lead stars, Naya Rivera, who played Santana Lopez , was presumed dead after her son, four, was found alone in a pontoon boat on Lake Piru in California (PICTURED, LEFT, ON FRIDAY, WITH HER SON JOSEY, RIGHT, IN 2015, WITH EX-HUSBAND RYAN DORSEY)
CORY MONTEITH’S FATAL DRUG AND DRINK BATTLE
In what was the start of the show’s behind-the-scenes demise, on 13 July 2013, Cory Monteith, who played Finn Hudson, was found dead of a drugs overdose aged 31 in his Vancouver hotel room, after taking a lethal combination of heroin and alcohol. Four months before his death he had completed a stint in rehab.
Cory Monteith played Finn Hudson
Cory was dating Lea Michele at the time of his death. After news broke of his overdose, it was revealed that Lea rang his mother, hysterical and screaming: ‘Is it true?’ Following his passing, she released a statement.
Through her representative, the actress said: ‘Lea is deeply grateful for all the love and support she’s received from family, friends, and fans. Since Cory’s passing, Lea has been grieving alongside his family and making appropriate arrangements with them. They are supporting each other as they endure this profound loss together.’
Lea, who is expecting her first child with husband Zandy Reich, began dating Cory in 2012, and after his death, she said: ‘There was no greater man than Cory. So, for the time we spent together, I consider myself very lucky.’
Five years after his death, Cory’s mother Ann McGregor insisted her son had been on pain medication following dental work to cap his teeth in the weeks before his overdose and that he ‘never meant to die’.
She said he had battled his fair share of demons from a young age, drinking and smoking marijuana from 13, and with two stints in rehab by the time he was 19. While he managed to get clean for a time, he fell back into bad habits when he went to Hollywood.
Ann, who admitted her son began using drugs again in December 2012, seven months before his death, said: ‘He wasn’t ready for the Hollywood world. Drugs were his way of checking out’. After his death, she said: ‘I still can’t pick up the pieces. My world totally stopped. And I’m a different person than I was before.’
Heartbreaking: Cory Monteith, who played Finn Hudson on the show and dated his co-star Lea Michele up to the time of his death, was found dead of a drugs overdose aged 31 in his Vancouver hotel room, after taking a lethal combination of heroin and alcohol (PICTURED, LEFT, WITH LEA IN 2012, RIGHT, IN 2010)
MARK SALLING’S HORRENDOUS CHILD PORN CONVICTION AND DEATH
The most horrific of the show’s woes was undoubtedly Mark Salling’s 2015 arrest and subsequent conviction in 2017 for possession of more than 50,000 images and 600 videos which showed girls, some of whom as young as three, being raped. It was described as ‘the worst pornography collection the nation has seen’.
Mark Salling played Noah ‘Puck’ Puckerman
Salling, who played Noah ‘Puck’ Puckerman on the show, had tried to conceal them by masking his IP address and storing them on an encrypted hard drive. They were revealed to police by an ex-girlfriend who he showed them to. She was sickened and notified authorities. In his plea deal, the extent of his collection was described in harrowing detail.
He was found dead from suicide by hanging on 30 January 2018 near his home in Sunland, Los Angeles. His death came shortly before his sentencing, which was due to take place on March 7. He had attempted suicide the previous year by slashing his wrists, after which he was treated for psychological problems.
Salling dated Naya from 2007 to 2010. In her 2016 memoir, Sorry Not Sorry: Dreams, Mistakes, and Growing Up, the actress admitted that she was not surprised by his horrendous convictions.
She wrote: ‘I can’t say I was totally shocked. When Mark dumped me, I thought it was the worst thing ever, but can you imagine if that didn’t happen?…
‘And I was laying there in bed when the battering ram came through the door?’
Prior to his death, in January 2013, Salling’s ex-girlfriend Roxanne Gorzela accused him of sexual battery by forcing her to have unprotected sex without consent. He denied the charges and filed a countersuit for defamation. In March 2015, they out of court with judges ordering him to pay her $2.7million.
Horror: The most horrific of the show’s woes was undoubtedly Mark Salling’s 2015 arrest and subsequent conviction in 2017 for possession of more than 50,000 images and 600 videos which showed girls, some of whom as young as three, being raped (PICTURED, LEFT, ARRIVING AT COURT IN DECEMBER 2017, RIGHT, WITH EX NAYA RIVERA IN 2009)
LEA MICHELE’S DRAMA BEHIND THE SCENES
Lea Michele, who played Rachel Berry on the show, has been plagued with rumours in recent weeks, after a host of cast and crew members have come forth to accuse the leading lady of bullying on-set.
Accusations of on-set bullying began with a tweet from Lea’s co-star Samantha Ware last month, accusing her of being rude to her on-set and behaving with ‘traumatic microaggressions’.
Lea Michele played Rachel Berry
Others then piled on to the actress with allegations of their own, including Heather Morris, Dabier Snell and Yvette Nicole Brown. Lea was subsequently dropped by her sponsor, HelloFresh.
Morris, 33, who played cheerleader Brittany S. Pierce on the Ryan Murphy show, claims Michele was ‘very’ unpleasant to work with, saying: ‘Was she unpleasant to work with? Very much so; for Lea to treat others with the disrespect that she did for as long as she did, I believe she SHOULD be called out.’
Lea apologised and said she has ‘never judged others by their background or color of their skin.’ She also insisted she will learn from the mistakes she has made so she ‘can be a real role model for my child’ when she gives birth in a couple of months.
Naya and Lea famously had on-set friction, with the former writing in her book: ‘One of the Glee writers once said that Lea and I were like two sides of the same battery and that about sums us up. We are both strong willed and competitive – not just with each other but with everyone – and that’s not a good mixture…
‘We’re all stressed, yes, but we’re all working toward the same goal, so laugh it off and keep it movin’. Lea was a lot more sensitive, though, and it seemed like she blamed me for anything and everything that went wrong.’
Shocker: Lea Michele, who played Rachel Berry on the show, has been plagued with rumours in recent weeks, after a host of cast and crew members have come forth to accuse the leading lady of bullying on-set (PICTURED, LEFT, LEA FRONTING HELLO FRESH, RIGHT, SAMANTHA WARE ON GLEE SET)
CREW MEMBERS’ PASSING: ‘WE’VE LOST ANOTHER ONE’
Between 2013 and 2014, the show saw three heartbreaking deaths. Three months after Cory’s 2013 death, assistant director Jim Fuller passed away in his sleep, from heart failure.
Production assistant Nancy Motes
In Season Four, a subtle shout-out was given to Jim, while Glee cinematographer Joaquin Sedillo wrote on Twitter after his death: ‘This is such sad news. Jim was such a great guy and was so good to me always.’
Then in 2014, the cast were left ‘devastated’ by the death of the production assistant Nancy Motes, the sister of Julia Roberts. Nancy died aged 37, after drowning in a bath on February 9, 2014. She was found surrounded by non-prescription and prescription pills, according to the Los Angeles County Coroner.
She claimed in her suicide note that the actress was so cruel that she ‘drove me into the deepest depression I’ve ever been in’. She described the Oscar-winning star as a ‘so-called sibling’ who should get nothing if she died – except the memory that she pushed her over the edge.
In the handwritten note, which was used as evidence in court amid a legal battle over her estate, Nancy said that Roberts’ abuse had been so bad that ‘I burst into tears because I wake up’.
Following Nancy’s tragic death, fellow production assistant Cristina Lageman spoke to MailOnline about Jim’s death, Nancy’s suicide and the concerns over ‘a curse’ on the show’.
Cristina said: ‘She was such a good friend to me. It’s just shocking. Yes, she had her own little struggles, but when we got together, we just bonded and she never let them get to her. It’s such a shock, what with Cory passing last year, then we had a crew member, Jim Fuller, die. Now we’ve got this hit and it’s almost too much.
‘Glee was like a family. We spent 12 hours a day together. We would refer to each other as The Glee Family. Colleagues have been posting on Facebook: ‘We’ve lost another one.’
Further pain: Production assistant Nancy Motes, the sister of Julia Roberts, died aged 37, after drowning in a bath on February 9, 2014. She was found surrounded by non-prescription and prescription pills, according to the Los Angeles County Coroner (JULIA ROBERTS AND HER SISTER NANCY PICTURED IN 2002)
Heartbreaking: She claimed in her suicide note that the actress was so cruel that she ‘drove me into the deepest depression I’ve ever been in’. She described the Oscar-winning star as a ‘so-called sibling’ who should get nothing if she died – except the memory that she pushed her over the edge